How much - or Extreme

How much should you intervene in the matters, of the people you want to help.

There are always relationships in one's life, where you are not very close to someone, but want to be a part of their life, and help them in whatever problems they have. As always you never know, whats on their mind, what do they want and all those chaotic possibilities. You dont know, whether your help is going to bring 'happiness' or 'tension and frustration' in their life. It might be that a specific intervention might be not required for, and could be considered as an unfriendly act. The person in question might feel being troubled unnecssarily or for worse, could take it as an insult. You on the other hand do not want to bring all these thoughts on their mind, and just want a smooth solution for them.

On the other hand - You struggle with your mind, more than anything else - busy predicting what would be the effect, and obviously its useless, given all this randomness.

The battle begins You vs Them...Or may be you vs you. On one side you cannot handle not helping them, on the other you cannot accept troubling them...

I know the answer- as all other solutions to social problems - its communication...
But thats also not so easy & natural...

Jaam ke saath

I
naam bhi pata hai
kaam bhi pata hai
tere naam ka har jaam bhi pata hai
nahin hai pata to bas us shaam ka
jis pe tera naam likha hai

II
zulf ko munh mein daba liya, andhere ne suraj ko dooba diya...
jhalak khul ke le na paya main is nazare ki ,
teri aankhon ne jo mujhe is kadar karaah diya.....

III
Dard itna bhi ho sakta hai , na jana tha maine kabhi
Nasha aisa bhi ho sakta hai, socha na tha maine kabhi
Dawa hoti hai har dard ki , soch ke hamesha khush rehte the,
Hai ek dard bin dawa ke bhi, ye bataya tune abhi

IV
Phir vohi shaam hai..
Nazme aur nagme sun jaao aaj to phir

aao paas aa baitho
kuch muskura do to zara sa aaj to phir

madhosh hone ko pee to raha hun
par tum madhoshi ban baitho meri aaj to phir

Kehta to rehta hun diary se blog se dil se apne
baat mere dil ke parde ke peeche ki khud padh jaao, aaj to phir

V
Aaj bhi reh reh aksar gumshuda si sada tumhaari,
pakshi ki chehek si sunai deti hai
chaahe tum chaaho ya na, idhar hamesha meetha sa hi ehsaas hota hai
Kuch to ache karm kiye honge in kaanon ne mere

Why Compare

Why compare Federer vs Nadal
Why compare Sachin vs Schumacher
Why compare Phelps vs Lewis
Why compare Height vs Depth
Why compare Black vs White
Why compare Day vs Night
Why compare Alcohol vs Grass
Why compare Beauty vs Seduction
Why compare Discipline vs Freedom
Why compare Pursuit vs Attainment
Why compare Win vs Loss
Why compare Pleasure vs Sacrifice
Why compare Loneliness vs Company
Why compare Life vs Death

Why compare Comparing vs Not Comparing
Why not find - more of "Why compare"

One Liners (theme - love)

Life is colorful, but I am colorblind to it, without you

Love obliterates the mind, but alas the vice versa is not so easy


Your eyes are like a prism, I can see all the colours of life in it

You are unique in fact light years apart from others, And my heart has travelled so far,
just to have a glimpse of you

Loosing its authority with every meeting

A new city always welcome you with a warmth, a cold breeze and unread
emotions. Its a new soul, unassociated with this city. Trees summon you
, Clouds smile at your face, Roads tempt you to tread,People seem to be
very interesting, Cultures lively. Everything is so enthralling, it feels
like u r on the gateway to heaven.

The same city, with no alterations in its existence, loses its newness, in
just two weeks. And that is not because, U have swallowed everything it has
to offer.its no more the same. I have found a purpose with it, and the city
is going to serve it for me. The attachment to it has taken me away
from the true itself. Works like like poles of magnet. The attachment snatches
the elegance and the deep bred beauty hidden in it.

I must say its true for most of the things.. Oh mind - U great Magician!